10 Behaviors That Feed Jealousy

Constantly talking about a co-worker

He’s nice, he’s charming, he’s caring. In short, you fell under his charm. That doesn’t mean you’re in love with him, but if you keep talking well about everything this colleague does and says, chances are your partner will end up suspicious and worried. If you want to make him jealous, that’s a good way to do it, but if you don’t want to, remember to remind your lover of his qualities and to measure your enthusiasm for this extraordinary colleague

Register on a dating site

Out of curiosity, you signed up for a dating site to see who the single men and women in your area are. Even if you do it without malice and without any real desire to deceive your lover, if he realizes that you have even opened a profile, you can be sure that it will arouse his discontent and jealousy. Admit it, if you felt like looking elsewhere, there must be a reason, otherwise why tempt the devil unnecessarily.

Exchange emails or text messages with another person.

You met someone in a gym or at a party. Whether it’s an old acquaintance or a new one, if you start exchanging naughty and charming emails and text messages right under your partner’s nose, you can bet that it will not be without consequences. Seeing you smiling and laughing at each exchange, your partner may feel frustrated and jealous of the person you seem to be having so much fun with.

Charming someone else while you are with your partner.

At a party, one of your friends shows up with a charming and interesting person. You want to play the game of seduction. You even come to forget that your spouse is there, somewhere, and that he/she can see you making eyes or touch this person affectionately. Be aware that there are limits you should not cross if you do not want to hurt your lover and if you do not want to make him/her jealous. It’s nice to feel like you’re pleasing someone else, but if you love your partner, it’s better to be careful what you do.

Smell someone else’s perfume

If you arrive home and you have a scent of perfume on your neck that is not yours (or your partner’s), it’s quite possible that this will raise questions. Imagination is fertile and your partner could imagine all sorts of scenarios.

Looking good for a date without your partner

You’re going out with friends for a simple dinner, but contrary to your habits, you’re putting on the gum to make yourself look good. Before leaving, your spouse will certainly find you very chic, but he/she may wonder and imagine that you are on a date.

Come home a little later without explaining yourself.

You’re used to coming home early and you’re the type to explain every minute you’re late, but now you come home in the early morning without explanation. If your partner asks you questions and you don’t want to give any answers, chances are that he/she is wondering. If you don’t have anything to hide, think about it before you play the game of secrecy, it can cause unnecessary worry.

Wrong first name

You’ve got the wrong name: Whether it’s a pure distraction or a strange slip of the tongue, your partner may be surprised. Expect to have to answer questions.

Seeing your ex again

In spite of your break-up, you have always continued to talk with your ex, you have kept pictures, and you even go out to dinner with him on occasion. You say he’s just a friend. But even if this is true, he is still your ex and seeing him again can play on the other person’s trust, because who hasn’t heard of a friend who has relapsed with their ex, etc.? You have shared some great moments with this person, so it is normal that your spouse worries about you going out with her, especially if you come home late.

Radio silence

You go out with friends, your spouse calls or texts you, and contrary to your habits, you don’t answer. Too busy enjoying the evening. Your silence may worry your spouse. At first, he’ll think you left your phone in the bottom of your purse, but if you delay coming home, his imagination may play tricks on him.

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