Who has never wanted to keep the image of a princess, a perfect girl in the eyes of his Jules? So, is any truth good to tell? Or is it necessary to create a secret garden where no one can penetrate? If you want your darling to look at you with loving eyes, as if you were unique, here are 10 little things not to reveal to him at the beginning of the relationship
Your discussions with your ex
Your friend must not know that you have kept in touch with your ex, let alone that you have had fun archiving all his mail/text messages so that you can reread his words of love. You’re having trouble drawing a line. Yes, it is. Everybody has trouble wiping out the past with a magic wand, the trick is to be discreet while waiting for this burning passion to slowly fade away. Nostalgia remains present for a long time, but fades with time, until it erases everything, as if nothing had existed. Your boyfriend doesn’t necessarily want to know about your sentimental past. Your present is him, and no one else.
Being honest and sincere with your boyfriend is good, and even recommended. But Jules certainly doesn’t want to plunge headfirst into the infernal complexity of your girl brain, nor to know all your problems and all your disillusioned questions about your complicated life. Keep your diary under your bed, it belongs only to you. One day, perhaps, you will explain to her more calmly what is going on in your head. For now, the simple and spontaneous girl that you are, suits her perfectly.
Your hours spent waiting for his call
Admitting to him that you waited all night for his call, that you couldn’t sleep a wink because you were afraid that he had forgotten you… It’s showing him that you give him too much importance. Firstly, he might be afraid of your overly stifling feelings, secondly, he might take it for granted and stop trying to make your heart beat. So, yes, you’re stressed when he doesn’t respond within a minute to your text messages, or when, after promising to call you, your phone doesn’t ring. It’s no big deal, he’s a guy. Don’t forget that we don’t work the same way!
No need to offer him a good cause to leave you right away! Ok, you’re really pissed off because this gentleman has decided to go for a drink with his buddies tonight, when you would have simply preferred to spend the evening huddled up against him, on the couch. So be it. But he mustn’t find out about this. So you take out your mask of good humor, put on your biggest smile and throw him one: “Sure, honey, have fun with your friends. See you later. Afterwards, if you really want, when he’s gone, you can cry, gulp down some Nutella and list all his faults on a post it.
Your photos buried in a box
Your darling doesn’t need to know that three years ago you were wearing baggies, had atebas in your hair and had an extreme passion for skateboarders. Even less that you had no style and really didn’t know how to dress, that your face looked more like a cross country field than a rose petal. In short, frankly, you didn’t have to show him those famous pictures… that you yourself had taken away from your own sight !
Your weakness for blonds
Jules is a beautiful dark brown. And you sincerely love him. However, you really fall for blond, English type. Beware of telling him, he would be offended. Besides, he’s not bad your Jules like that, is he?
Your love of youth
Yes you loved Vincent more than anything. This beautiful blond met on the sand of the south, with whom you watched the sun set over the sea… Certainly. You have the right to keep these beautiful memories in your heart… but not to display them in front of your present darling.