Routine is easily associated with the image of the old couple devoid of any fantasy. Even if it has a very bad reputation in love, routine is inevitable. What is dangerous in routine is to end up living next to each other without seeing each other. Your number one enemy? Boredom, a symptom of unhappiness and lack of emotions. When we are bored, we risk looking for the good times in the past. And it is not in nostalgia that a couple blossoms.
CULTIVATE YOUR DIFFERENCES
Develop personal activities on your own. Why should you do this? First of all, to develop yourself. Then to create the desire to be face to face with Jules. Go back to dancing, discover yoga or visit exhibitions with friends. Because after the madness of the first days, curiosity should take over. Don’t be afraid of differences, they have a stimulating effect on life together. A couple that always does everything together is doomed to asphyxiation. So, change the air a little.
PAMPER YOUR PARTNER FROM TIME TO TIME.
Compliment him, invite him to a restaurant, offer him a small gift… In a word: show him by simple gestures, and not necessarily expensive, that you care about him. The cordon bleu can, for example, cook his favorite dish…
SEDUCE AGAIN AND AGAIN
You must cultivate the desire to please him (and vice versa!) on a daily basis. attractive underwear, plunging neckline, mini shorts or mini skirt… There is no lack of ideas, you just have to think about it. And it is not always easy when one is taken in the daily frenzy. The surprises are, of course, welcome to spice up your daily life and cultivate the pleasure to two. In a word: dare!
GO TO CONTACT
Dispute management is at the heart of a couple’s success. It is not about avoiding conflict, but about knowing how to manage it. To keep the domestic scene from getting out of hand, avoid contempt and humiliation. Begin with “It hurts me to see…”. rather than “It’s always the same with you…”. ». And remember that differences of opinion, no matter how annoying, keep the boredom out of the equation.
BETTING ON THE FUTURE
Having memories in common is good. But having projects is even better! Whether it’s a trip, the purchase of an apartment… If you don’t have common desires, it will sooner or later be difficult to move forward together.