Do you live with your partner? Do you behave immature and petty about household chores when you didn’t before? Then you know that the relationship is not going to last long. Has he forgotten to throw the trash bag outside in the dumpster again? Instead of asking maturely, or throwing it out yourself with ease, you leave it there – until it starts to stink. This behavior is destructive to a relationship and a sign that it is doomed to fail.
You’re attracted to literally everyone
If you find yourself attracted to every man or woman in the pub or every person you meet on Instagram, your relationship is doomed to fail in the long run. Of course, you can always feel some attraction to someone, but if you’re truly in love with your partner, you shouldn’t be attracted to everyone who looks somewhat handsome.
You leave things out that you actually want to do
Suppose you meet someone, you fall in love, and you move in together. You live together for a while and only then do you find out that your partner does not believe in marriage or does not want children. If you have been dreaming of a big family or a glamorous wedding since you were little, this can become a huge problem. Maybe not right away, but in the long run it is inevitable.
You’re bound to run into several things you disagree on, but you can’t compromise on big things like this. Relationships between people with completely different long-term goals will always fail in the end.
You forget important details
You recently forgot the anniversary of your and your partner’s relationship. Not only did you forget, but you also don’t care that you didn’t celebrate it. Once you stop caring about important milestones in the relationship or celebrating together, that alone shows that the relationship is doomed to fail.