In general, women tend to place a high value on words, while men rely more on actions. Therefore, when men tell women what they want to hear, they are tempted to believe them, even if their actions don’t necessarily match their words.
In general, women tend to place a high value on words, while men rely more on actions. Therefore, when men tell women what they want to hear, they are tempted to believe them, even if their actions don’t necessarily match their words.
On the other hand, men observe women’s behaviour and interpret it in terms of what they believe, even if this interpretation contradicts what women say. So if you tell him you don’t love him, but continue to have sex with him, your statements are in vain. He will interpret your actions and draw his own conclusions about how you feel, and thus will successfully fit into the types of men who don’t have husband potential.
The discrepancy between actions and words is problematic, especially if you want a relationship that ends in marriage.
Here are five types of men who don’t have marital potential, even if they say something else entirely.
The ‘Help me until I’m ready!’ type.
The ‘I need help’ type is the captive of his own insecurities. He only talks about his problems, never yours, but he wants a woman by his side because it makes him feel validated and more valuable. So he keeps her by his side, asking her to wait until he’s ready. But guess what? He’ll never be ready! So he’s definitely among those men who have no husband potential
The guy who dares to bring up the subject of marriage
Since he knows that women value words over actions, he dares to bring up the subject of marriage and brings up future plans, knowing that’s what you want to hear. But that’s what it’s all about! He never takes action and never sets a concrete deadline. If you attack the subject, try to divert the discussion in other directions.
The guy who has nothing against talking about marriage
This type of man lets you talk about marriage as much as you want! He knows you want it, so he listens to you debate the subject in great detail: what your home will look like, what kind of furniture you’ll buy, how the wedding will be organised. And when you ask him what he wants, he answers with candor: ‘Whatever you want, baby!’ But also pay attention to his actions! If he doesn’t do anything in this direction and if it’s all about him, then he’s one of those men who have no marrying potential.
The ‘I’m sure you understand me!’ guy
He is the type who always finds logical, acceptable excuses. For example, he can’t take that big step in the near future because he’s busy with his career, or because he needs to lose weight first, or start his own business and get it off the ground. Plus, he’s counting on your approval, understanding and support.
The ‘let’s have as much fun as we can first’ type.
This is the kind of guy who is only driven by the pleasure of the game. When the novelty wears off, he’s ready to start a new adventure. He has no intention of making plans that involve a family and children or even having a steady relationship with a woman.
