The most important signs to watch out for before you set your heart on a platter!
You saw him for the first time, lost yourself in each other’s eyes, chatted for a few minutes and before you got home, he sent you a friend request on Facebook. Everything seems to be going in the right direction. And yet, things don’t go exactly as you’d like. And that’s probably because, in the words of the movie, he’s not so into you. Because when a man isn’t that into you, you’re not a priority. Here are the signs to watch out for before you put your heart on the line.
Keeps you warm
Interaction between you happens mostly online. He pays you compliments, says nice things, and then disappears for a day or two. Until, at some point, he disappears altogether. A man who is interested in you will leave no room for interpretation and will communicate with you constantly. He will also tell you the miraculous phrase – “you can call me anytime.”
Gives you nothing but hope
When you are together in a circle of friends, he whispers sweet nothings in your ear, smiles at you conqueringly and makes you feel like the most beautiful woman in the room. She tells you how much she would love to meet just you the next day. But he never makes a concrete proposal of time or place, nor does he ask when you are available and when you would like to meet him. Tomorrow arrives and he is suddenly busy. A man who wants to see you or see you again will be sure to make himself understood in this regard and will at least try to establish very clearly where and when this will happen.
Talk only about himself
A man who is genuinely interested in you will ask you questions and want to get to know you beyond the shape of your body. He will want to know who you are, what you like, what you have in common and how he can help you. A guy who just makes small talk or tells stories about himself is in a different category.
If you’ve got the hots for someone like that, put the brakes on. Don’t take things personally. The man may be going through a difficult time or may not be emotionally available. And move on. Somewhere out there you’ll find the one who’s perfect for you.
