It’s not easy being a strong woman, but you experience immense satisfaction when you reach that level. Because a strong woman is a woman who has been lied to and forgiven, she is a woman who has expressed her feelings and not been responded to with the same sincerity, she is a woman who has fallen, been controlled, but has stood up and made herself respected.
Having gone through all these experiences, the strong woman has developed self-confidence, self-respect and, of course, self-love. She knows that she is the only person she can rely on at any time, she is her greatest helper, she is the one she has to live with until the last day, which is why she tries to live in harmony with herself, but also with others… especially with the man she has chosen to spend her most physical contact moments with.
Now she is no longer easily fooled, nor does she have the time and energy to forgive certain mistakes.
Lack of respect.
A strong woman puts respect above all else. She knows that everyone has something valuable to offer and always listens to what people have to say. On a first date, whether it’s romantic or business, the strong woman values how the other person behaves towards her. If it’s about respect, then chances are they’ll go out on a second date or close a deal in both their favour.
Control has never done any good and never will. A person kept under control has never developed healthily and will never respond properly. The strong woman does not want to be in control of everyone, nor does she want to be controlled. In a relationship, she wants both partners to enjoy trust and freedom.
Normally, no one, woman or man, should accept lies, but there are still some people who prefer to turn a blind eye when they are lied to. This is not the case for the strong woman. A single lie, no matter how small, leads to loss of confidence. The strong woman will never look at the person who lied to her in the same way again, while the man next to her may be cut out of her life for good.
Going beyond her boundaries.
“If I said ‘No’, ‘No’ means stay!” – seems to be the motto of a strong woman. She is not like a leaf in the wind, but is always firm on the decisions she makes. If her partner will try to cross certain boundaries that she has imposed, then she is not the right partner. Don’t try to manipulate her or work behind her back.
Don’t express your feelings to her.
No matter how strong she is, when it comes to compliments, statements and kind words, a strong woman will still blush and feel a pit in her stomach. What’s more, a strong woman may have an even greater need to know what feelings a man has for her. And she, in turn, will enjoy expressing her feelings freely.
Not being listened to when she speaks.
Not listening to someone when they are talking to you is disrespectful, which means you are wrong twice. If you don’t have eyes and ears for her, then why would she agree to have a relationship with you! If you don’t listen to her when she talks to you and you don’t respect her… why would she waste her time with you?!
Don’t support her ambitions.
Not only women, but also men want to have a life partner who will support them in their decisions and help them pursue their dreams. The strong woman is ambitious and may sometimes go overboard with what she sets out to achieve, but the man next to her must understand and fight alongside her.