Each of us dreams of the one true love that will change his life forever. However, along the way we have to deal with many attempts that end in failure. How can we help ourselves and prepare ourselves to find true love?
emotional maturity
Love will never be sincere and true if we don’t know exactly our feelings. Awareness of what we really need in life comes from emotional maturity. Understanding one’s emotions takes time and a lot of attention, but it gives us a tremendous amount of benefits that we can use in many aspects of our lives.
Don’t be afraid of change
Everyone has their comfort zone, which they don’t really want to leave. However, the name “comfort zone” does not always mean something good. Even though we feel so comfortable, it can actually harm us. Open yourself up more to new things that can positively surprise you.
Don’t give up on your priorities
Baggage of experience and life stories make us reevaluate our priorities. Aware of our values and goals, we can take the direction that best suits us. This way there are better chances for meeting someone with similar priorities.
Fall in love with yourself
Until you love yourself, you won’t be able to love someone else. Self-love involves accepting your flaws and advantages, respecting yourself and developing your shortcomings and abilities.
Don’t look for it by force
True love comes unexpectedly. It is impossible to choose a person, plan the whole relationship and have control over everything. Instead of obsessively looking for love, pay attention to the world around you. Enjoy it, travel and appreciate what you have. Let love come to you on its own.
trust your intuition
You may think otherwise, but in reality intuition never fails. It is a collection of all our knowledge, experiences and emotions that we have learned in life. Our subconscious knows very well what we really want and what we really think. Listen to it, because your intuition, is the real you.
