Learn how to bring love into your life!
Sometimes, when you’re alone, you seem to see people in love everywhere you look: at home, at school, on the street, in the office, in parks and restaurants. Somehow this seems to intensify when you long for a relationship and it doesn’t happen.
You may well meet only the wrong people along the way, or you may refuse to meet new people at all, and the solution to finding that perfect love seems to be known to everyone but you. But there is, as always, a solution. And that is to free yourself from negative thoughts and energy in order to learn, above all, to be happy with yourself, even when you don’t have a partner or, better said, especially when you don’t have a partner
Until we all learn this lesson, love will stay away from us.
Freedom from dark thoughts and negative energy is the first step in this direction and here is how this can be achieved.
Live your life clean
When you gather around you things you don’t like, people you don’t like or negative thoughts, you are energetically charging yourself. That’s why a first step to climb in the search for love is to free yourself from all the toxic people in your life.
Sounds easy to do and a no-brainer but for some, we are still bound by feelings and emotions, shared memories, perhaps shared people or treasured objects. None of these things is a price that can’t be paid when going in search of happiness.
As far as material things are concerned, they too can play a very important role. That’s why it’s vital to get rid of things and clothes that cause painful memories and turn them into pleasant memories. All of these can be donated and thus reach people who really need them and, in spirit, this gesture will turn into positive energy.
Don’t go back to the past
The past is a good part of who we are today but it does not represent us completely. That’s why it’s important to learn from every mistake we once made and then let go of it. As long as we live with one foot always in the past, we will not be able to move forward into the future.
There is a Proverb saying that what we have done is good and nothing can change that. It is therefore a futile effort to carry back things over which we no longer have any power and which are holding us back.
Joy brings joy
Although we are surrounded by beauty, we manage to blind ourselves sometimes and stop seeing it because of the glasses we place on our own eyes.
No matter how difficult a particular moment may be, and we all hit pain, we must find the strength within us to enjoy the little things that bring joy, even the sunshine, the chirping of birds, the rain, the wind, the handshake of a friend, the quiet of home or finding pleasure in a passion.
Before we try to get the things we want, we must learn to be grateful for the things we already have.
Call love into your life through the power of meditation
A very important first thing to remember is that through meditation, we draw upon our own power to love and forgive ourselves, not necessarily to attract the affection of a particular person. There is no specific technique for doing this, but a few simple steps can be followed.
First of all, you need to find a comfortable position, in a chair, in bed or on the floor. Take a deep breath in and out slowly. Concentrate on the natural way the air goes in and out of your lungs. Feel the rhythm of your breath. After you have relaxed, think honestly and without anger about a certain character trait of yours that you are not fully satisfied with.
It may be a desire to procrastinate, a hot temper or something else. As you exhale, imagine all these things evaporating from your body. They dissolve like salt in water then distance themselves from you through the exhaled air, like white steam.
Don’t look for love on the outside
Look for love within yourself. They say love comes when you don’t expect it or when you stop looking. Sometimes this principle works, sometimes it doesn’t. But to be free of love, the power of love must be sought within and this, in turn, will attract love.