Every queen deserves a king.
The quest for love is a noble goal, and finding it will crown your journey.
But on the way to THE one, you’ll have to sort through your suitors and get to the bottom of your feelings for them. So how do you know when you’ve met YOUR Man of Influence?
It’s right when:
- HE’S YOUR FRIEND.
With him, you are not only a femme fatale, nor only a woman in love. He’s your date. He makes you laugh. You can confide in him without being afraid to reveal your flaws and doubts. You don’t fear his judgment, and you can be yourself in front of him. You share much more than just love. In short, you are in love with a man who could be your best friend!
- YOU LOVE THE WOMAN YOU ARE WITH.
Your love makes you more confident, more sure of yourself. You feel even more beautiful and conquering since he is in your life. You are serene and confident in him, in yourself and in you. This serenity gives you the mental space you need to focus on your goals. Because you no longer waste time doubting yourself, scattering yourself, waiting for a message, you are strong, efficient and creative. In fact, everyone tells you that you are glowing!
- YOU ARE PROUD OF HIM.
You are proud of him when you are on his arm or when you introduce him as your man. But you’re not just proud because he’s the most handsome, elegant and s**y! His appearance is not your ultimate source of pride! Your man is not a handbag! You are proud of his behaviour, his life choices, his values, the way he looks after you.
- HE’S BEEN PUSHING HIS LIMITS SINCE HE MET YOU, AND YOU’RE DOING THE SAME.
Be careful, going beyond your limits has nothing to do with “changing for the other person”, which would be the opposite of being fulfilled in love. You love each other as you are. But the love you have for each other pushes you to be better and gives you the extra self-confidence and motivation that moves mountains. You give each other the best version of yourselves. You will become a glowing, supportive couple, forming a team that inspires respect.
- YOU CAN DO WITHOUT HIS PRESENCE…
What binds you to him is not the fear of loneliness. You must be the woman of your life before you meet the man of your life. You have to feel fulfilled on your own and enjoy your own company so that when you meet him you don’t confuse the simple need to be loved with being truly in love. You love him, not being in a relationship if you are serene away from him, even when you miss him.
- … BUT YOU DON’T WANT TO LIVE WITHOUT HIM!
You can live without him, but you don’t want to live without him: you love him, but you also love yourself. These are the two conditions for forming a harmonious couple that brings you both fulfilment and success. You do not need him to live, but with him your life has more meaning and flavour. You want to share your joys and sorrows with him, and you want to share his and embrace his world and his destiny. You can look forward to the future with this man, in the everyday as well as in the strong moments. You know that he will support you in whatever you do to achieve your goals and that he will respect you unconditionally, and you are fully determined to do the same for your man.
If you can see yourself in all these points, if you can see him in them, then… he may be your Man of Influence!
In that case, one last piece of advice: don’t rush. If he’s the one, you have your whole life ahead of you to build together.